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Embracing the Discomfort of Change

Matthew 15:10–20

Things were changing at Westtown Middle School. New class structures, new buildings on campus, new online systems to use. The group of teachers—me included—wiggled uncomfortably in the faculty meeting. Things at the school had been working very well. Why change them?

One teacher wisely spoke up. “Sometimes we just need to embrace the discomfort of change.” I’ve remembered that phrase as many circumstances in my life have forced me to accept change—changes I didn’t ask for, didn’t welcome, and certainly didn’t feel ready for.

Change has a way of unsettling us, even when God is gently leading us toward something good. And that’s exactly where we find God’s people in Matthew 15.

When Jesus Shifted What People Thought They Knew

For generations, Israel had lived under the Old Testament law—laws about food, washing, sacrifice, purity, and worship. These weren’t just religious guidelines; they were the framework of daily life. The law shaped identity, belonging, and holiness. It was familiar. Predictable. Safe.

So, when Jesus stood before the crowd and said, “Listen and understand: what goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them…” He was touching the most sensitive part of their tradition. Purity laws had been part of their spiritual DNA since Moses. They weren’t just rules—they were the way people understood righteousness.

To the Pharisees, Jesus wasn’t simply offering a new teaching. He was re‑ordering the spiritual furniture of their entire world.

Jesus was shifting the focus from external obedience to internal transformation. He wasn’t abolishing the law; He was revealing its deeper purpose. The law had always been meant to point toward the One who could change the human heart.

Why Change Feels So Hard

Change unsettles us because it touches the places where we’ve built our sense of safety. Even when routines feel comfortable, change asks us to loosen our grip on what we know and trust God with what we don’t.

The Pharisees felt that same tension. The law had become their anchor—something they could manage, measure, and control. When Jesus asked them to examine their hearts instead of their habits, it felt threatening. Heart‑change is harder than habit‑change. It requires honesty. Surrender. Trust.

And trust is often born in the very discomfort we try to avoid.

Welcoming the Change That Leads to Life

The changes we never asked for often become the places where God does His deepest work. Not because the change itself is good or easy, but because it opens space in us that wasn’t open before.

Jesus’ words in Matthew 15 invite us to trust Him with that space.

I’ve lived this truth. I’ve walked through grief, retirement, and the emergence of a new calling. None of those changes were simple. But each one became a place where God gently re‑centered my life around what truly matters.

That’s the invitation Jesus offers all of us: To let Him move us from the familiar to the faithful. From the external to the internal. From managing life to trusting Him with it.

Reflection Questions

  • Where is God inviting you to release something familiar so He can grow something new?
  • What heart‑level change might Jesus be gently pointing to beneath your routines?
  • How have past seasons of discomfort shaped your faith in ways comfort never could?

Closing Prayer

Lord, help me embrace the discomfort of the change You are using to transform my heart. Shape my inner life so it reflects Your love, Your truth, and Your presence. Amen.

 

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Linda Cobourn

Linda Cobourn picked up a pencil when she was nine and hasn’t stopped writing since, but she never expected to write about adult autism and grief. When her husband died after a long illness, she began a remarkable journey of faith with her son, an adult with Asperger’s syndrome. The author of Tap Dancing in Church, Crazy: A Diary, and Scenes from a Quirky Life, she holds an MEd in Reading and an EdD in Literacy. Dr. Cobourn also writes for Aspirations, a newsletter for parents of autistic offspring. Her work in progress, tentatively titled Finding Dad: A Journey of Faith on the Autism Spectrum, chronicles her son’s unique grief journey. Dr Cobourn teaches English as a Second Language in Philadelphia and lives with her son and a fat cat named Butterscotch in Delaware County. She can be contacted on her blog, Quirky, and her Amazon author page. 

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