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When Pruning Feels Like a Pit

June 21, 2026

Guest Post by Gretchen Ellixson

John 15:2
“Every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit.”

In early spring, when the dogwood trees begin to blush with soft pink blossoms, it’s easy to forget that beauty often follows a season of cutting back. Blossoms don’t appear without pruning. Growth doesn’t happen without roots. And sometimes, the Lord allows both in our lives at the very same time.

Has there been a season when you felt as if you were in a pit—nothing working, nothing blooming, everything broken?

That may have been a time of pruning. And pruning, though painful, is often the beginning of God lifting us to a new level.

I learned this through my dogwood tree.

My tree was about seven years old when it bloomed beautifully for the first time. I was thrilled—until the day my boys and a neighborhood friend were playing football, when the friend ran straight into a tree, snapping off a branch. I didn’t know what had happened until a neighbor called when I returned home from the market.

At that moment in my life, I felt just like that dogwood—mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually broken. I hardly knew which way to turn except toward the Lord. When you feel pruned down to nothing, the only safe place to lean is on Father God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit.

I called a nursery for advice. They told me to prune every branch back. The tree would likely recover because it had seven years of strong roots—but they warned me it might never bloom pink again.

I trimmed it back, unsure if it would survive.

But the next spring, to my surprise, the dogwood blossomed pink once more. And it has continued to bloom—growing taller, stronger, and now reaching nearly twenty feet high.

My life changed, too. Because I was rooted in Christ for many years, I wasn’t destroyed by that season of pruning. Over time, the Lord restored me, strengthened me, and reshaped me into a woman who would never return to the brokenness I once knew. His power and might now help me face every obstacle. With His Word as my sword, I can stand firm against every fiery dart of the enemy. No weapon formed against me will prosper, because greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world.

Pruning didn’t end me. It prepared me.

And the same God who brought my dogwood back to full bloom can bring beauty from your broken places, too.

Pruning is not punishment—it is preparation. When your roots are in Christ, every cut becomes a doorway to new growth, deeper strength, and unexpected beauty.

Closing Prayer

Lord Jesus, Thank You for being the faithful Gardener of our souls. When life feels like a season of pruning, remind us that Your hands are never harsh—only healing. Teach us to trust the cuts we do not understand and to rest in the roots You have already grown deep within us.

Strengthen us when we feel broken. Restore what has been damaged. Bring new blossoms in Your perfect time. May our lives bear fruit that reflects Your beauty, Your power, and Your love.

Amen.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Linda Cobourn

Linda Cobourn picked up a pencil when she was nine and hasn’t stopped writing since, but she never expected to write about adult autism and grief. When her husband died after a long illness, she began a remarkable journey of faith with her son, an adult with Asperger’s syndrome. The author of Tap Dancing in Church, Crazy: A Diary, and Scenes from a Quirky Life, she holds an MEd in Reading and an EdD in Literacy. Dr. Cobourn also writes for Aspirations, a newsletter for parents of autistic offspring. Her work in progress, tentatively titled Finding Dad: A Journey of Faith on the Autism Spectrum, chronicles her son’s unique grief journey. Dr Cobourn teaches English as a Second Language in Philadelphia and lives with her son and a fat cat named Butterscotch in Delaware County. She can be contacted on her blog, Quirky, and her Amazon author page. 

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